Do Traditional Dating Values Apply Online?

The simple answer is ‘no’, but that would make a very short blog post, so I’ll elaborate… Anyone can make the first move – Traditionally it was thought that it should be the man who first approaches a woman to ask her to go on a date with him. However, when it comes to online… Continue reading Do Traditional Dating Values Apply Online?

What Do I Get For My Money?

A question we get asked a lot is ‘why should I have pay to message people?’ Fair enough, we understand that money doesn’t grow on trees (if it did we’d all become arborologists) and that for many it is difficult to find the money to pay for online dating sites. However, there are reasons why… Continue reading What Do I Get For My Money?

How What You Wear Can Boost Your Confidence

What you choose to wear can affect your mood and how people react to to you, which in turn can help to boost your confidence. Dress for comfort People close to you will often say they love you in your most comfortable clothing – what they really mean is that they like you to be… Continue reading How What You Wear Can Boost Your Confidence

Getting Started – Part II

In ‘Muddy Matches – Getting Started’ we looked at how to confirming your account, how to create a profile, how to upload photos, how to search for matches and how to pay for a subscription. However, we’re only just started, so here some other things you need to know about Muddy Matches… Finding out who… Continue reading Getting Started – Part II

First Date Grooming Tips for Men

When meeting someone for the first time your appearance says a lot about the type of person you are. We’ve already looked at what to wear on a countryside date, but it’s also important to consider your personal grooming on a first date. Greet your date with a long tangled beard with bits of food… Continue reading First Date Grooming Tips for Men

First Date Safety Tips

Most of the time, the worst thing that will happen is that you will find out that the gorgeous photo of your date was due to some expert lighting techniques or that you have opposing opinions on jazz music. However, it’s important to consider your safety on a first date and to err on the… Continue reading First Date Safety Tips

Your site is a much needed breath of fresh air…

“I fell upon your site by accident and I wanted to give you some feedback….good feedback. I have tried various other sites and have become very jaded with it all. From the first, your site is refreshing and easy to use.  Your pop up comment windows and help screens are friendly and welcoming.  They also… Continue reading Your site is a much needed breath of fresh air…

Don’t Give Up!

You’d be surprised how many people cancel their membership after failing to meet someone straight away. In fact we’ve had people cancel within 24 hours saying that they are terminating their account as nobody has got in contact with them. Some people do meet their dream partner within a day of joining the website, but… Continue reading Don’t Give Up!

I think your site is great…

“I just wanted to let you know that I think your site is great. I’ve never attempted the online thing and have always been scared off by horror stories but this seems absolutely fine, well managed and easy to navigate. Well done! It’s good to see some normal, fun, country-minded people setting up a sensible… Continue reading I think your site is great…