What’s Going Wrong?

A lot of the questions that we receive every week have a similar theme as people ask where they are going wrong. Here are two of the most common enquiries and some advise about how to tackle the problems. “Why aren’t I getting any messages?” First of all – are you sending any messages and adding… Continue reading What’s Going Wrong?

Messages to send this Christmas

You may be surprised to find out that the Christmas is one of the busiest times of the year for online dating websites, with only New Year’s Eve and Valentine’s day pipping them to the post. Lots of existing members take time out of their busy schedules to log in to their online dating account… Continue reading Messages to send this Christmas

How do I Write a Message?

Writing a message to someone is the key to getting yourself a date, but what do you write to impress the man or woman of your dreams? Make a shortlist It’s not a good idea to send messages to everybody within your gender and age preference. Take time out your busy schedule to look through… Continue reading How do I Write a Message?

What to Write in a Message

Writing messages is most essential part of online dating as it’s how you get to know people and crucially, how you arrange to meet up with them. However, it’s also one of the most intimidating parts of online dating, second only to getting started in the first place. We’ve put together some tips to ease… Continue reading What to Write in a Message

Why haven’t My messages been read?

Sending someone a message is the single most important thing that you can do on a dating website. It shows that person that you are interested in them and is the first step in arranging a first date. Being on a dating website without sending messages is pointless and is like owning a mobile phone… Continue reading Why haven’t My messages been read?

Coming on too Strong

Coming on too strong is one of the easiest ways to scare someone off. Here are some of the ways that people can appear to be too intense and how you can avoid falling into the same trap. Don’t bombard someone with messages If someone doesn’t reply to your message straight away, be patient and… Continue reading Coming on too Strong

Message Tips

If you’re looking to meet up with someone, the best place to start is by sending a message. However, it’s probably the area that most people are unsure about – after all it’s tricky to strike up conversation with someone new. Here are some commonly asked questions about dating messages and some hints to make… Continue reading Message Tips