When you really want something, like to meet your perfect match, you can appear desperate. Unfortunately, coming across as too keen can scare people off as they will fear that they aren’t special, as you are so intent on finding someone that anyone will do. We know that in most cases it isn’t really true,… Continue reading How Not to Appear Desperate
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The Importance of Being Proactive
Being proactive is the best way to get yourself a date as it allows you to be in control of your online dating experience. Here are some steps that you can take to become more proactive.
Messaging Dos and Don’ts
One you have signed up for an online dating website, filled in your dating profile text and selected a good profile photo, it is time to start sending messages to get in contact with other single people. Here are some things to consider when sending messages.
How to Build Your Dating Confidence
Dating is a scary thing — there’s the fear of rejection, there’s the fear of not being noticed at all and there’s the fear that you will become the topic of the village gossip network. We can’t stop you from being rejected, or from the local title-tattle, but we can help you to feel more confident… Continue reading How to Build Your Dating Confidence
Don’t become Penpals
Online dating is meant to be a way to meet someone with whom you have a connection and to start dating them. However, lots of people find themselves engaged in long strings of messages without ever meeting up with the people whom they are talking to.
How long does it take to Meet Someone?
Everyone wants to know how long it will take to meet someone when they first join an online dating website. The truth is that you can fall in love with the first people whom you meet, or it can take years to find the right person. Typically it will take about three months, but it all depends on… Continue reading How long does it take to Meet Someone?
Simple Message Templates
Being on a dating website without sending a message is a little like going to the supermarket without any money, or bank cards. However, sending a message can be quite daunting if you don’t know what to write and if you are scared of rejection. We have put together a collection of templates that you can… Continue reading Simple Message Templates
How to Play Fair
When you are using an online dating website, it is all too easy to feel detached from the other people on the website as you can’t see them face-to-face until you arrange to go on a date with someone. However, every single person who you encounter on the site is a real person and has… Continue reading How to Play Fair
What’s Going Wrong?
A lot of the questions that we receive every week have a similar theme as people ask where they are going wrong. Here are two of the most common enquiries and some advise about how to tackle the problems. “Why aren’t I getting any messages?” First of all – are you sending any messages and adding… Continue reading What’s Going Wrong?
Messages to send this Christmas
You may be surprised to find out that the Christmas is one of the busiest times of the year for online dating websites, with only New Year’s Eve and Valentine’s day pipping them to the post. Lots of existing members take time out of their busy schedules to log in to their online dating account… Continue reading Messages to send this Christmas