Guest Post: Dating After Divorce

When we said our wedding vows or made our commitments to our partners we never imagined that one day we’d be facing separation and divorce. We never imagined having to date again. That was my experience anyway. Yet, after the ending of a 20 year marriage, I picked up the pieces again, licked my wounds.… Continue reading Guest Post: Dating After Divorce

You Said What?

They say that first impressions count, and when it comes to dating you don’t get a second chance to make a first impression. So here are a few things you really shouldn’t say on a first date… “You look younger/thinner/more attractive in your photo” – Commenting on how someone looks in real life compared to… Continue reading You Said What?

Guest Post: Build Photo Selfie Esteem this Christmas

Christmas is the time of the year when selfies and group celebration photos run into upload mayhem. Whether it’s the office party, a family get-together or a pals knees up; everyone wants to capture the cutest, most festive and hysterical photos to post on social media sites. In a month where we all need to… Continue reading Guest Post: Build Photo Selfie Esteem this Christmas

How Much Should I Spend on a New Date?

It’s nearly Christmas, which means you are either a) daydreaming about the upcoming event, b) hiding under a blanket and occasionally muttering Bah Humbug, c) too busy to notice, d )frantically searching for gifts. If you’re frantically searching for presents, you’re probably wondering how much you should spend on your new date and what you… Continue reading How Much Should I Spend on a New Date?

How to Write an Opening Message

From 8th-14th of December 2014 we will be giving 10p per message that is sent on Muddy Matches to R.A.B.I., which will hopefully encourage people to be brave and to send a message to people that they may not have contacted without the incentive. Just make sure that you don’t entitle your message “I’m doing… Continue reading How to Write an Opening Message

What’s the Most Popular First Date Idea?

You may have noticed that we have been running a poll to find out what the most popular first date idea is with three classic options. The options included meeting for ‘coffee’, going out for an ‘evening meal’ or going for ‘a drink’ and nearly 6000 people responded to the question! The most popular answer… Continue reading What’s the Most Popular First Date Idea?

Why Haven’t They Replied to My Message?

The most frustrating thing about dating is waiting to hear back from someone. However, it’s important to try not to think about it all the time, which I realise is about as hard as it is to not look  when someone shouts “don’t look”. Here are a few reasons why someone may not have been… Continue reading Why Haven’t They Replied to My Message?

The Perfect Profile

Sloan Sheridan-Williams is a Chelsea based Celebrity Life Coach, Wellness Expert and Relationship Expert. Sloan is famous for her six step coaching model called ‘The Sloan SECRET’. Here Sloan talks about how to approach your dating profile, your profile photo and how to keep a positive attitude. A Complete Guide to Online Dating When approaching… Continue reading The Perfect Profile

5 Reasons Why Bonfire Night is a Great first Date

“Remember, remember the 5th of November” (or any day around that point when your local fireworks display is on) if you’re planning a first date. Heading to a fireworks display is a great first date because: *It’s a safe place to meet up – A fireworks display is a busy public event, so you won’t… Continue reading 5 Reasons Why Bonfire Night is a Great first Date